***update: thanks so much to all who commented, emailed, or wrote to me on facebook. i appreciate all the advice!
because i do not have the time to get online and do my own research, i will send my questions out into blog world and wait for the internet to come to me.
hopefully i'll get some answers this way...
1) if i'm going to pump and store milk, when's the best time to do it?
2) how do i know if something i ate doesn't agree with graham? will it be more than just normal burps?
3) how long does it take for something i ate to get into my milk?
4) if i'm "baby wise"ing him...and he finishes his meal, but seems to need more sucking time for soothing in order to fall asleep after "play time", but he WON'T take a pacifier...what in the world do i do?
and, if you're wondering why i don't already know this stuff (this being my second baby) it's because i wasn't able to nurse harrison for this long.